Long Distance Relationship (LDR), Will It Work?
One of my friend has asked my opinion bout LDR, “What do you think bout LDR, Will it work?”. To me, it’s kinda hard (almost impossible) to keep ur relationship if you r way too far from your mate in a very long time.
A long-term relationship is based on “TRUST“, “ROMANCE or INTIMACY“, and “COMMITMENT“. It’s very hard to TRUST ur beloved one if he/she’s not by ur side in a very long distance and time. Infrequently communication will cause a misunderstanding and ROMANCE will start to fade away. Both of the couple will start to doubt their mate’s COMMITMENT.
For a couple who is deeply in love, being separated a hundred or maybe a thousand miles away in a few months is as if they haven’t met in a few years…And LDR in a few years seems like a very long time to go….Moreover, both of them will start to worry bout each other loyalty. Even simply little things like doubt and jealousy will easily distract their relationship status and cause them to break up…
LDR is based on the person, if both couple has a strong COMMITMENT and TRUST, ROMANCE wont easily fade away and after they met each other again, their relationship would become stronger. This happy-ending case is very rare (It’s not rare in the romance movies, but in reality, I think it’s very rare).
I dunno what other thinks bout LDR, but if this problem come to me (hopefully it wont), I hope I could still keep my relationship without being hampered by distance or time…
Quote of The Day:A relationship is a two way street.
It’s never all your fault or the other persons.
You go into the relationship together
and work through it all together.<Anonymous>
